Do we really want to play fair and square. Does it actually exist? Or is it just the sweet act of revenge that fulfils the delight. For most of us it’s the aftermath that we look forward to.
We all grew up facing situations where we’ve wanted the other person to suffer for his wrong deeds against you or someone close to you. In your head you know that falling is not a choice, you just have to fight back and get over the discomfort caused by the other person.
But is revenge really a solution? Looking for conjectures, keeping tabs on every chance you get. Is it really worth your time?
Childhood has undoubtedly taught us this refrain ‘Tit for Tat’ . To be honest 90% of us are blindly following it. Have you ever thought of walking down the path of forgiveness?
Give that person the benefit of the doubt. Show that entity that his actions does not let your kindness be overshadowed. Enlighten him with the humanity in your soul. Remind him that serving someone back with same mistreatment isn’t always how it should end. Keep your brighter side high. Make him feel ashamed of what he’s done to you. Wake up the wittier side in you , play smart and clever.
Just because you’ve been through certain situations it doesn’t give you the liberty to loose wisdom and stoop down the same level of insanity as the other did. Stand up for yourself but wisely. Don’t give that person the opportunity to repeat his deeds. Change their habit for good. Let humanity persist. Don’t let this belief be buried so soon. We’re all equally dependent on each other. How you react to those unpredictable situations and abrupt behaviors is completely your choice.
But rather than being the one drowning the boat be the one who saves it.
Be the upper hand for a change.
Help those in need.
The payback is just a phase don’t let it reach out to you. There’s a lot more to human nature, its time we surface it. Let yourselves be free and explore.
Its about time we believe in the prosperity we can spread and live in harmony.